I have dedicated my career to the empowerment of individuals, especially women so I have a bone to pick with the Girl Scouts of America. Having never been a Girl Scout I only came upon the Girl Scout Oath recently when the difference between the Girl Scout Oath and the Boy Scout Oath was brought to my attention.
I firmly believe that confidence building and providing environments where youth can become authentically strong, smart, and bold should start early on so I was very distressed to learn the differences in the two organizational oaths.
Here are the two oaths:
Girl Scout Oath
On my honor I will try to serve God and my country,
To help other people at all times, and to live by the Girl Scout Law.
Boy Scout Oath
On my honor I will do my best
To do my duty to God and my country and to obey the Scout Law;
To help other people at all times;
To keep myself physically strong, mentally awake, and morally straight.
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What irks me the most is how the Girl Scouts take an oath to try and serve while the Boy Scouts swear that they will do their best to help others. Besides the obvious brevity in the Girl Scout Oath, I take umbrage with the fact that we are not empowering the girls of today to become the “doers” of tomorrow. There is no shame in trying but the verbiage does not exude confidence and strength in my humble opinion.
In all fairness, my research unearthed that Girl Scouts do some amazing things and are committed to fostering confidence, volunteerism, diversity, societal issues, and scholarship but the oath was coined in 1912 so ladies, please consider a revision!
The messaging we send to our children shapes their behavior as adults and I believe that Girl Scouts deserve to do their best just as Boy Scouts. It all boils down to gender messaging and eventually filters into the workplace when these girls reach adulthood.
If we can provide them with a non gender based opportunity to discover their strengths, do good work, and pay-it-forward to help others then we will move forward in breaking down the gender barriers that are still alive in the professional workplace today.
So the next time you buy Girl Scout cookies, ask your young scout what she is doing and applaud her for her good work.











